Relativity

The wise ,
teach without telling
allow without commanding
have without possessing
care without claiming - Tao Te Ching

When mind operates with its innate nature "to fragment", it creates an illusionary world of relativity from a holistic one.

Relationship is the thus the idea of realising and coming out of this illusion to seeing the sameness and oneness.

A person or object or an idea can seem to be different relative to another, but in its essence never themselves change, similar to a mirror which can relfect different images of objects before it but still continuing to be a mirror.

Relationships can be everlasting and happy only when we relate , understand and appreciate the never changing core truths. Eventhough relative differences may keep the momentum call love initially high, it cannot fuel a lifetime, for to say something is different is to overlook the commonness of the difference which already exists.

Problems are created not solved
Ideas are accumulated not invented
Knowledge is observed not understood
Suffering is ignorance not strife
Life is NOW not time